My father, in 1928 was born, this year already 82 year old of longevity. Has children five, eldest sister eldest brother three elder brother works at farming in the countryside, two elder brother and I goes to work in the city. Has grandson granddaughter 8, grandson granddaughter 4, great-grandson granddaughter 7, a respected family has 37 people, it may be said that descendant full house, and is the four generations in one household, such family, not sees now.
Time the father is young the story, I am certainly not clear. Was only before aunt kisses heard that the children were many, in the family did not have the grain, to fill the belly, the father year to year in outside, has sold the draft animal, the lumber, has rushed for the horse-drawn vehicle, has made the mountain crops, traded a grain, traded a money, maintained home use, even if like this could also not recuperate this family, in the family always lacked food and clothing. My brother elder sister is very small must under work, is engaged in the arduous physical labor, pulls a cart ascends the firewood, grazes sheep cuts grass, the plow farm, turns a millstone catches up with the donkey, digs the vegetable to dig the medicine, takes on Shui Beizhuang, every kind wants to do. The father to support this family, is very busy all day, rushes about in all directions, elder brother the elder sister went to school the education matter very disciplinary training of juvenile delinquents.
In such difficult environment, tempers the farmer who them one each one can endure hardship does the good work, henceforth again has not left the land, two elder brother afterward through own endeavor, when the extinct species, enroll the college entrance examination, enters the normal school, enters in again the city the school, afterward entered the institution, becomes the city person. Each family day was very at that time difficult, my brother elder sisters are the birth and grow up gradually in the hard times, and gets married and begins a career, finds a wife gives birth to a boy, had a happy family respectively, and present also descendant full house.
I have the impression to the father, in the late 70s's matter, eldest brother eldest sister has gotten married, two elder brother goes to school, three elder brother has adopted for seven uncles. I some 5.6 year-old appearance, the land already started to contract the household slowly at that time, the day feels better gradually, starts to cultivate own private plot, I remembered that the father is specially diligent, each is not bright daily leads elder brother Shangdi to work, the mother and I also with, Shangdi's person also was very being sometimes few at that time, because was too early. Afterward the father for eldest brother another family, let eldest brother the independent gateway, in the family often only then 3 people, perhaps because of me and two elder brother's reason, did the crops to go all out exactly, got up early, but in the earth dug the food solution is only the food and shelter problem, in the family was still very poor. Afterward two elder brother has also gotten married, goes to work in the city, is only left over my this youngest son to become his burden, but the father is very good to me, very little obloquied I, I has passed a joyful childhood.
83 year one day looked that movie's evening, two elder brother goes home suddenly, receives in the city me on the middle school, delivered many words on the road to me, the meaning is lets me resolve, to go out the countryside, on city person's life. Henceforth my destiny starts to change, finishes attending the junior middle school high school in two elder brother sides, finally enters the normal school, really in walks entered a city, this affects the biggest person for a lifetime to me, except the parents was two elder brother, his benevolence expressed with difficulty really.
Since the mid-80s, in family's place planted the apple tree, the father had the hope, the working zeal foot, in addition, but also wrapped, wrapped the orchard with eldest brother, got up early, often 34:00 am got out of bed Shangdi, probably the whole body had could not cause the vigor, this time the father also had over 60 years old, in the city already was the retired age. At this time, the grain already sufficed to eat, the money is not many, but the day was gradually good. Because becomes ill because of overwork, the father dropped the angina pectoris, cervical vertebra sickness, the prostate gland and so on old ailment, henceforth the medicine again to the body, the indisposition has not been suffering its more than 20 years.
90 years later, in family's apple tree starts to enter the high childbirth time, the price is also very high, the income increased, goes to school the school expense, the father no longer worries, but father's temperament goes bad many, quarrels frequently with the mother even fights, celebrates the new year not to be unhappy year after year, wants to leave this family frequently.
In a moment, entered in 2000, started for one new century. The father already more than 70 longevities, I also got married and began a career, as a result of body's reason, made children's persuasion, the father very would rather to leave it to cultivate many year lands, gave eldest brother the land to cultivate, henceforth started another kind of new life.
The parents two people live alone in same place, is not willing to live together with any children, is also not willing with eldest brother not to be willing with two elder brother not to hope with me, two old bodies might, we not demand at that time, decided that every year to parents certain living expenses, usually goes shopping sends back again, can let their food and clothing without cause for grief. In the new year's celebration celebrates a holiday two elder brother to meet the parents enters a city to stay a while period of time, improves parents' living condition and the physical requirements, then lets them go back.
The work pressure did not have, the human has been idle, the father thought the matter were many, was not very good enjoys the descendant full house family happiness, but entered during the quarrel which and the accusation complaint talked endlessly with the mother, the father thought anything at heart, ever did not say in front of the children,baby blanket, the corner wiped the bay frequently, mystical, children's mistake, the opposite did not say, behind spoke irresponsibly, made our brothers between the sisters had the barrier, we took the parents not to have the means really,
Entered in 2009, the father already 82 advanced ages, the body has been inferior to the past greatly, the dose is bigger,（Related Articleskoala baby boutique clothing The child hyperactive will soon discover that treats early）, the ache intensified, the condition treatment gap was shorter, the memory obvious drop, had said the matter very quick did not remember, but also loved earnestly, also had one kind to the mother to rely on excessively, ever was not willing to leave one step, the extreme emotionalism, was very tenacious, said how could probably be what kind, could not convince, what was more fearful was cerebrum consciousness had problems, the frightened death,baby dolls, the frightened disease, the whole evening whole evening could not fall asleep, even had the hysteria sickness phenomenon, started daytime to talk in a dream, this was not a good sign, I and two elder brothersVery worry.
The parents old had been already incapable, although the parents have not left behind the how much material wealth to the children, but they gave birth and have raised us, in the most difficult years, even if were being hungry, must eat leaves the children, the children grows up has taken care the wedding, found a wife to them gets married, has the grandson to continue to foster, did not need them until the children, they the energy save the life the selfless contributions to give the children, and educated in the life is moving us, they are leaving us is the precious spiritual wealth, was personhood's spirit and the quality, this left behind the gold to be more precious. The wealth is creates with both hands and the wisdom.
Now, the father has been old, should let him enjoy the life well, eats to them drinks puts on amusingly good, lets them side the children, looks after them, enjoyed family happiness, the father works hard should very good rest for a lifetime.
Although our also manner parents,baby gift basket ideas, have the life huge pressure, but their parents are also our spiritual props, has them side us, we to will live confidently, will have the infinite power, will have one kind painful and the joyful feeling .....
